Wednesday, 4 May 2011

Sob

So just when I was enjoying writing this blog, a major disaster happened. I had written a mega post on the best shopping sites, pros and cons, personal experiences, awesome items I have purchased myself etc etc. I was so proud of it. It was the best (and probably only) handbook written on this subject that is so close to my heart.

At some point when I was adding the finishing touches, I think I must have pressed Ctrl Z. Suddenly, everything just disappeared - poof! And then Auto Save happened. And it was gone for good. I googled for advice on how to go back - can't you always undo? - but apparently I'm not the first one who has had this problem and I won't be the last. Yet Blogspot fails to do anything about it. Makes me wonder if I picked the right Blog publishing tool after all. Still here goes.

It's taken me weeks to get over it, considering the monumental task of rewriting that post. But I'm not really going to bother doing it right now. Maybe some day but for the moment let me keep it light and easy when that Ctrl Z strikes.




Friday, 8 April 2011

eBay International

Ok, so by now you've realised that I shop online a LOT. It started off when I was really skinny a few years ago and couldn't find anything my size in India where "free size" (ugh!) is a freely used term, except at Mango, where I really couldn't afford to shop all that much at the time. 

That's when I began to experiment with both buying and selling online, starting out with that old favourite - eBay. But not eBay.in because it's not really ideal for clothes but better suited to people looking for electronic items. I mean eBay.com where you get literally EVERYTHING - I'm sure you've watched Jay Leno's segment about that. But of course, I'm talking about fashion. So here's the goods (and the bads!) on eBay:

1) Wide variety - Both new and second hand items are freely available on eBay which means you can score designer or branded items at a fraction of their retail price. You need to be alert though to get the best deals, and be open to sellers from around the world.

2) Safety - Contrary to what you may think, eBay is a pretty safe place. In fact, the customer service is almost always excellent. I bought a MAC lipstick once which was damaged and the seller sent me another for no extra cost. Another couple of times, when I received the wrong item, again the seller sent me the correct one and didn't even ask me to return the wrong item. 

Stick to the experienced sellers who have a lot to lose from negative feedback (you will know that from their scores), and use Paypal to pay and you really shouldn't have any problems. The occasional item does get stuck at Customs though which brings us to...

3) Customs - Paying exorbitant duties is a risk that's part and parcel (a pretty good pun there!) of online buying. However, most eBay sellers are individuals like you and me, and pretty sympathetic to your bank account woes. So you could always ask them to mark items as "Second hand" or "Sample" or a lower value to avoid paying duty. Tip: If you go for the more expensive Priority Shipping using Fed Ex or DHL, chances are you'll save money because these shippers are rarely charged duties for packages under a Rs. 10,000 value.

4) The Hunt - That's where all the fun is! Getting the right search words, looking for auctions that end when everyone else is busy or asleep, waiting and watching till your auction ends, sniping at the last minute (when you bid at the last moment snatching that bargain from under all those other bidders' noses) etc etc. Tip: Search for misspelled words - chances are, no one except you will have found that Channel bag (of course, make sure it's not really a cheap rip off "Channel bag!"). Frankly, I'm not much for designer items, but you may be.

For people who don't have the patience for a hunt (these are the same people who go into a shop for 10 minutes, come out with 10 grand worth of stuff and are done for the day), eBay is still a good option. If you know exactly what you want - a certain brand of lipstick in a certain shade for a certain price, eBay can almost certainly get you something below the retail price (even if you add shipping).

5) Sizing - It's always going to be a risk since you're not trying on the clothes but once you know your size, you shouldn't have a problem. Always ask for measurements if you're not sure. I buy shoes on a regular basis without any issues. I'm always a US shoe size 7 (UK 5) and the smallest size available for everything else except trousers/jeans which I very rarely buy online. People with wider feet however may need to be extra careful.

On a related note, since many amateur sellers are just cleaning out their closets, it can be pretty heartbreaking when you find that gorgeous pair of shoes, but they're 3 sizes too big. Do NOT fall into the temptation of purchasing them hoping you can make them fit by adding 3 pairs of insoles (I know - I've been there!)

6) Shipping - Individual sellers tend to be very flexible about shipping. Unlike big online stores, they don't have contracts with USPS or Fedex so they will use the cheapest mode of shipping if you ask them to. But be warned about sellers who have dirt cheap prices and then add on exorbitant shipping rates.

It can also be pretty sad when sellers don't ship to India. You can request them nicely (before bidding) or, if you're really desperate, you can use a Global Shipping service which gives you a US shipping address that you can have the item sent to, and they will then send it to you from there. More on that later.

Since starting my Online Shopping journey on eBay, I have explored lots of different international shopping sites (more on that later) but always visit eBay once in a while when I feel hungry for a hunt.

Thursday, 7 April 2011

Gotta have new jeans

These great jeans by R13 have encouraged me to buy a sewing machine and make them myself out of my brother's old pair. Can't afford the $285 price tag!



R13 Crossover Denim in Dark Blue

I also love the track detail at the bottom of these R13 jeans. I have a couple of trousers from Zara in this style:



R13 Denim Sweatpant in Vintage Blue



7 for All Mankind Trouser Jeans in Dark Blue

My last big splurge on jeans was this gorgeous pair by J Brand and Hussein Chalayan:



Wednesday, 6 April 2011

Sweet Sweats

This past winter we actually had unseasonably cool weather - in Bombay this means between 10 and 20 degrees celsius - and I got into sweats in a big way (black with grey is my favourite combination). I love prettied up sweats so I absolutely fell head over heels with Mink Pink's Basketcase weave sweater. Unfortunately, by the time I fell for it, it was sold out nearly everywhere but nothing would stop me. I finally paid a bomb for it at www.pixiemarket.com (isn't it sad that it was sold out at Asos where it had been listed at half the price that I paid for it??)

Unfortunately, it's super hot weather and, open weave or not, it cannot be worn. Never looked forward to the monsoon as much as I do now.


The Mink Pink Basket Case Sweater

Don't you love that Asos model?

I also love this option on Pixiemarket.com - so cosy chic!:

And this, again from Asos:


Tuesday, 5 April 2011

Ok, so in my last post, I ruminated about how fashions change and can change you with them. Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't have your own fashion identity - I have nothing but love for icons like Audrey Hepburn who have a classic style all through their life - but I think the key is to keep classic pieces that are your own style and change up other elements according to the times.

The simple handbag is one such example. Remember when we were lugging those mammoth things around? I never really needed to pack anything for overnight trips - I always had everything I wanted right there. 

But right now, it's the humble little messenger bag that's got me hooked. Last year I splurged on this hot pink little number by Madewell - a brand that I loved before Alexa Chung decided to endorse it by designing a line for it. But earlier this year, I began to wonder why I had bought it. It's a colour that doesn't "go" with anything. And it's so small it can barely hold my phone, keys, lipstick and wallet.

Anyway, so the other day, I decided to do a completely monochromatic outfit for an outing with a friend. Grey sweat Asos top with sheer black netting above a sweetheart neckline and my favourite high waisted cropped pants in black denim with black leather pointed ankle boots also from Asos. And as I had done so many times before with countless outfits, I grabbed the hot pink bag and posed in front of my full length mirror wearing it across the body. 

Voila! It had completely transformed my black and grey outfit. I was in love again, so much so that I actually made do all evening with just those four things in my bag. Plus, the freedom a messenger bag gives your arms is amazing because even though you're carrying your large bag over your shoulder, you always require one hand to steady it. Am I right?


Madewell Crossbody Messenger bag in Hot Pink

I lovvve the flamboyance of the colour with the silver hardware.

Monday, 4 April 2011

In skirts

Isn't it weird how something looks utterly yawnish one day and the next day you're ready to fork mega moolah to get one of those? The longish A-line pleated skirt is one of those things. I'm seeing so many of these on street style blogs, it's not funny. Of course, the reason it feels so fresh right now is the way it's styled. Clunky booties, denim jacket for cooler weather or with a tank and ballets for summer. This summer I have ditched my usually skinnies (I'll be back for you soon, my darlings) for baggy jodhpurs from Zara. Like I tell everyone - for an Indian summer, showing skin is not a sensible option. Instead opt for long, loose garments in breathable fabrics and you're covered (couldn't resist that one). You don't need to wax and it keeps ogling eyes away.

I especially wanted one of those aforementioned skirts in gold so I went to eBay of course. Thousands of results - and some were pretty close to what I wanted - but I finally settled for a Dana Buchman skirt in black gold. The supposed retail price was $350 but I scored this one for $55 plus a fairly reasonable $15 shipping. Can't wait till it gets delivered! See it on:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?VISuperSize&item=380084000596

Now I'll just have to wait and see if the current trend for flared trousers will finally make a convert out of a skinny jeans girl like me.



My inspiration 


There's also a gorgeous GAP skirt on sale on eBay in an unbelievable gold/camel colour. Not sure about the sizing though - shall I?? It's too late - I've already bid! Check it out on:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?VISuperSize&item=160566530391